cake/babies

can you have your cake and eat it too?  is that how the expression goes?  when you have a kid, my friends w/o kids ask me, can you still live your life to it's fullest or are you stuck in a rut looking up the creek? well, I'll be one to say having a kid is what you make of it, you can't look it like the child is going to hold back your lifestyle.  sure, life will change as you know it but how many times can you really watch sportscenter in one day?  how many kardashian repeats do you really need to view in one day?? I know, you spend your weekends at the MOMA.....life is about living and this is just one part of it, but don't ask me about having 2 kids b/c that's a whole other level which I'm not sure I'm down for & the discussion is definitely happening in my house but that's a whole other level like I said and another discussion for another blog for a different night.  well, I don't want to end like that. all in all, one doesn't need to go into complete isolation when they have a child, it's just a matter of those first newborn months of no sleep, no sex, no fun (just kidding, so much fun...sort of :+...no seriously, amazing beautiful experience).....

from the documentary "babies":

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