why having kids doesn't mean giving up your manhood

It's cool to be a guy again.  But guys need to make sure to remember who they are.  Guys need to keep their identities in tact.  We need to call out our friends who don't show up to guys night after they get married or they have their kids.  Yes, call out your friends.  It's ok to be busy with family and work.  But we need to maintain that sense of ourselves or we can lose it and forget about it and get resentful toward our spouse and that's not cool. I'm not saying don't be stoked about being a parent.

Or about being a husband.  I'm just saying keep it all in balance.  You're still a guy.  You're still a dude. You're still a man. So next time you have plans with a friend and you want to stand him up because you had a long day at work and you'd rather nestle up next to wifey and watch bad television, don't do it.

DZ